Dave and I have now been married for 7 years! That sounds like such a big number sometimes. Things have changed a little bit since we first got married - we're both a little chubbier, we have a kid, I don't get my feelings hurt when Dave can't hear me while he's typing on the computer...But mostly things are the same - we love to laugh, we have so much fun together, we agree on the important things, and agree to disagree on the not so important ones.
People tell me, and sometimes I agree, that I may be the only woman on earth that could stay married to Dave. He does have some obvious frustrating qualities - crazy work hours, doesn't like to plan, likes to annoy me on purpose, made me live in India...But I also often feel like he's the only one who would put up with me. I'm just better at hiding my frustrating qualities, I think (notice how I'm not mentioning what they are? Hee hee). Good thing that one of my good qualities is patience though, right?! But even with the imperfections, Dave is a kind, loving, and generous husband and father. He is fearless and has integrity, and he works hard to make us happy, and to do good in the world. Plus, he's hilarious. So I actually think I'm pretty darn lucky. We are so different, but thankfully we try to make our differences work to our advantage. So far, so good.



